...no problem dishing it out. BTW, my short and self-serving post below was meant to point you to someone who really knows what they're talking about. (As far as I can tell.) And that would be Jerry Simmons of WritersReaders.com
His website is a cornucopia of related information that you need to know if you're writing a book or novel, and it's backed by plenty of publishing experience. I like his honesty and he never sugar-coats anything. (You can't handle the truth!)
Congrats on your website Jerry, I wish you the very best.